Now we are approximately in a half of this book, and so it´s time to focus on the completely essential, and the most important issue of all. You are well prepared now. You know who you are, what you want from your life in the personal, material and financial terms. You have and know your vision. And you´re not afraid to go after your dreams, because you know you have nothing to lose, because here everything is temporary and death can always speed it up for us. So you know that you no longer have to follow anything and anyone but your heart and instinct. Now, to all of what you already know, we are going to add the most important thing. If anything doesn´t function you need to be prepared what to do, how to solve the situation and how to make the right decision. In this and the next lesson we are going to look in detail on the importance of positive thinking and learn how to keep thinking positively all the time and how to solve all your worries and problems without letting anything to take you your positive attitude.
Think about
So why do you think negatively? That is a question everyone should ask himself.
Why do you think negatively? Please answer this question. Write it down in detail. Why? Why? Why? And only then proceed to the next section of this lesson.
Explanation
Why do people ever think negatively? Is it for any good? And who taught us so? And did those horrible things which we have been thinking about ever happned? Sure, yes. Sometimes even bad things happen. But what…? So what? And are we alive today? Are we here and now? Well, it means that till now we have overcome all of our troubles, problems, fears, anxieties and difficulties. If we haven´t we wouldn´t be here. Someone might toss: Ok, I'm here, but I might be a far better off if I haven´t had to face and overcome all of the difficulties that happened to me during recent years. Well in that you are right. The question is. Do you think that the luckiest people you know or the most successful and famous people have never experienced or don´t experience bad days and hardships? Sure they do. It is clear. Nobody gets round worries, stress, bad mood and problems. So what's the difference then? Why you are where you are today and others are further away happier, have families, homes, good jobs or maybe a lot of money? Well, why they have it and you don´t?
It´s in thinking! That´s all! You can raise an objection that someone is born in a good or a wealthy family and he doesn´t have to work so hard to earn everything and meet his needs. It is a mistake. This person may have a material security, but if he doesn´t learn to think correctly, he is going to lose his property either, or in spite of everything he won´t be able to be happy. This is evidenced by the suicides of famous and rich people. Why did they kill themselves? Thinking. They forgot to create and develop their positive thinking. We now know that we should not neglect the thinking. Good thinking helps us not only to be able to achieve all our dreams and goals, but mainly to know how to enjoy this day. This moment. Don´t wait to start enjoying your life when you're bigger, older, richer, less stressed, when your children grew up, when you get rid of your annoying partner, after they shift you to better department, when your boss stops chasing you etc. No, that's all wrong. You should be happy and actually have to be happy right here and now! And if you're not, and you aren´t working on it, so believe me, life is going to force you to do it! Life will force you to think and start to appreciate every moment. How is your life going to force you? Simply. It´s going to take you all what you are attached to, what you care about the most or what you worry about. It´s going to take you your job if it prevents you from experiencing the happiness. It takes you your partner if you're trying just to meet his expectations and not enjoying your own life. It takes you your children if you are constantly worried because of them and you are "nourished" only by the thought of them. It´s going to take you your car if you are attached to it, your beauty, and eventually even your health. And all this just to make you realize that you are not here for any of these things or any of those people! This is the naked truth. You are here only for yourself and your joy and happiness.