Think about
Write down what do you think you are right at? Write down what do you think you aren’t right at? Who do you think is right? Who do you think has the truth? Once you have a list of your answers to all these questions ready, please, continue reading
Explanation
I believe you’ve honestly answered the above questions. And now we will discuss it together. So first, the first question, do you think that you are right? Did you write yes or no? Or you may have added a question, and in what way or topic? The answer is clear and always sounds the same - YES. At everything. In all fields, in all views. In all what you think and what you do, you're absolutely right. Perhaps that your truth doesn’t correspond with the truth of another person or other people. It doesn’t matter. That is natural. But that doesn’t mean you aren’t right. Your reality is formed by your truth. And because you're right always and in all so you are responsible for how you live. That may sound harsh, because we are accustomed to throw certain truths and the responsibility on other people. 57 For example on politicians. A lot of people are doing that and then they are sitting in the pub all afternoon and evening and are just complaining about how others make wrong decisions. And do you think they're right? Yes, of course they are right. If they were cutting the grass and were saying that this is the best activity, which at the moment they can do. Are they are right? Yes, they are right. It is very important to get used to that you're right in everything. Parents, some of our friends and institutions may try to explain us that we are not right or enforce us their truths. Sure, listen to their views and their truths. And thoroughly think over them. Those that you deem valuable and beneficial for yourself and your life just accept as your truth and take advantage of them. And forget the rest. Realizing that “I'm always right”, is an essential step to happiness, positive thinking and leading to independence. Nothing happens without a reason and just basically I can interfere in all. But it would be a different story. We're here focused on our truth. If I am right about everything, then when I don’t like any of my truths I can simply change it and thus affect my reality or ultimate outcome of some of my activities. And here we should pause. Certain circumstances or people directly or indirectly force us to question our truth. If we want to realize our truth, for example, if we have a goal or a dream we must believe in it and don’t let others to sway us. Neither the people nor the circumstances. For this reason it was very important to carefully go through each lesson about the positive thinking and really learn to think positively. The positive thinking is as necessary for the realization of our truths as a gasoline for car. Without gasoline car is not running. Without positive thinking you can forget your truth. If you haven’t the positive thinking, the fear, worry or other people’s opinions are going to win over your truth. 58 In this world everything is possible, and only we can decide how we are going to live here. How is your truth going to look like? Look to your goals you wrote down during the first and second lesson. That is your truth. Your best idea about your own life. I pray for you to achieve it, and therefore don’t neglect mainly your positive thinking. Techniques Now we will discuss techniques, how it all works: 1) I have a desire, a goal that I want to achieve. 2) If I only want something, I get the feeling of wanting. For some it is Universe for others it is God but both operate on this principle. You get what you want. Thought the answer to each thought is - YES, you're right. If you want something, so you get what you are asking for - that feeling of wanting and desire. 3) For you to get what you desire, you have to identify with your truth on 100 percent. And here we come to a stumbling block, which makes problems to 99.9 percent of people. And they get just very little of what they desire. Because they actually don’t believe. They have dreams and wishes, but they don’t believe they could meet them (that it could happen to them). And so they get just that desire. Unfortunately, I must warn you that even if you have a sincere desire and stick to your truth, pursue your goals and be positive in all, even in the most difficult moments, it will not be easy from the beginning. You will see that what you want the most, what you are thinking and dreaming about the most, that it is receding from you, gradually being destroyed by your or other people faults, until it reaches the point of the so-called "nonimplementation".
This is the point when you look at the situation and judge it using a common sense and you come to the conclusion that according to your experience, according to any physical, chemical and universal laws, according to all what you know and what everyone in this country applies according to all that it is a lost cause and opportunity. And not only that. Your biggest dream and goal isn’t totally lost according to all these parameters but it is unworkable. It is definitely depreciated. It is not working. And you have two options. Either you reconcile with the situation and give up or you absorbed it and go deeply in yourself and take a lesson from what has happened. Then you begin again to think positively about everything, despite all quite obvious facts. Facts which are hitting into your eyes and screaming into your ears that you are wrong and that all is lost. This moment will come, and believe me, not once. There a lot of those will come. The worst of course are the first of them because we haven’t developed yet habits, how to resist them, and so it can be difficult for us. As it is very easy to retreat. To abdicate. Start crying and cursing the whole world. It's much easier to call your best friend or your parents and go to them to complain about how the world is cruel, how you are trying, but everything collapses, that everything is against you and nothing will go well. And they, because they don’t know other approach and don’t know how to properly advise you, they will do the best possible thing they can do. They will be sorry for you and together with you they will condemn everyone and everything that contributed to your downfall. They will confirm you in your truth that you are the victim of the situation and that you don’t deserve anything what happens to you, because you've tried to do your best and the others destroyed it all. Certainly, in such a situation we can’t talk about God, because this is a pure hell. I wish you could recognize that this is the moment of your greatest victory. The moment all starts to fall apart, in the worst moment of the very bottom, in the last moment when you’ve got the last hit before falling to you knees, I wish you would realize that this is actually your greatest victory if you pick yourself up. If only you realize that all of these events serve to your greatest growth. For you to be better, stronger, and better than you’ve ever dreamed that you can be. For you to become admired by yourself and by everyone else. Then other people will be staring at you while saying: I wish I was such as he is. So don’t be afraid. At these difficult moments people will consider you as a fool and they will condemn and ridicule you for not giving up and still acting. But remember – YOU ARE RIGHT! Take that of yours greatest defeats and terror and start to think positively. Analyse the situation and immediately take lessons and conclusions what you are going to change for the next time. And you will either gain back what you have lost or you will gain it in other form and plus you will gain a lot other things and achieve goals, which you didn’t know they existed and you weren’t even thinking about them. It will bring you not two floors above, but 10 or 20 floors above. And yet it is not going to be enough. And in addition to what you’ve gained back thanks to your patience and positive thinking, except that you’ll get two more things that no one can ever take you. And these are: 1) You will be much bigger, firmer, stronger and better person than you’ve ever been. 2) You will know how to take care about all of this what you have now, how to manage it all so that you’ll not lose it again. Plus you'll know how to multiply it to have even more. Is it worth it? I hope, yes. Surely it is far better than tears and feelings of misery and frustration. But, what if you don’t cope with your crisis and are not able to think positively? What then? Then unfortunately one negative finding is waiting for you. There will be other crises. And when you will experience your next crisis, which sooner or later will appear, you'll cry again and again you will not learn the lesson. And so it goes round and round, until one day you say “Stop! I'm thinking positively and if the tractors start falling from heaven and everyone would be shouting at me, I do not stop, I will be positive and I will go after my goals and dreams, whatever happens.” It it worth the journey? Definitely yes. Is it going to be hard? Probably yes. Can I make it? Hundred percent yes. Why is it so clear that I can make it? Because realize and remember that YOU ARE ALWAYS RIGHT. You know the truth. And never forget one thing - it is quite helpful in difficult times – we’ve already learnt it but just to remind you. Remember and know that everything is temporary!!! Thus, this situation is only temporary too!!! And the fact that people ridicule you, don’t understand and criticize you, it's only temporary! And most importantly it's just a question of time until you get to your destination and you get all what you wanted and what you weren’t willing to abandon not even in times of the greatest and most difficult moments. Remember that you have nothing to lose. The death is still here. And in the eyes of death only one thing has its meaning and that is the love for what you do. Nothing else is important. So let's start and do it. You have nothing to lose! You may just gain. Doesn’t it make sense? It makes sense and an enormous sense. In conslusion In conclusion there is one more important thing to stress. It's pretty substantial. The thing is – the highest importance don’t have our goals and fulfilled wishes. The most important is Who we are. That is the most important thing. To clarify it I’ll show you one practical example. There is that so-called “attachment” and you’ve probably may have already heard about that. That’s when we want something too much and we are attached to this thing we are usually not going to get it. So, to avoid the next disappointment, let’s try to remember the following three things: 1) We can wish for and posses anything. "I have ... .." there you can put anything and if you believe enough that you already have it, it becomes your reality. If you are willing to stay positive even in the the negative moments, you’ll get it. 2) But there is one condition: Never forget Who you are. It is important to always keep in mind: I am the most important. I am more and bigger than everything and everyone else. 3) This fact who I am and what I am and how I feel, stands for me at the first place. Everything else, all things and all people are here and I get them just for my happiness. It's something extra. And I can have everything I think of. But my inner joy and my feeling and happines of being WHO I am, doesn’t depend on anyone of these people or things. What does it mean? In practice, this means that even if you lose that thing or that person or don’t get it, nothing changes for you. You want it but you can calmly exist and work without it. You'll still be who you are, even without that thing or that person. Your "Who am I - I am," doesn’t depend on it. If you realize that you aren’t dependent on the behavior or goodwill of any person that you aren’t dependent on any of assets or things or titles. Then you are going to have everything. It's a paradox, but it's true. Considering and knowing that my happiness depends on "Who I Am" and not on what I have or with whom I am actually, will help you in every bad and crisis situation. Because you'll know that it is only a step and shift to help you to be even better than you were before. To help you raise your "I AM" a notch higher. And then you are going to get everything you desire. The sad irony is that even when we realize it, when suddenly all beautifully clicks and again we gain all, over time we tend to forget what we’ve learnt. We tend to forget all our great progress and go back to our old habits. This is the problem, because sooner or later we will lose everything again, and life forces us to repeat the same lesson. So, to finally get out of this vicious circle, we need to boost our own thinking a little and on this we are going to work in the next lesson. Thank you for your patience that you stayed until the end and I look forward to meeting you in the eighth lesson.