Think about
We’ve already built a list of Who we are in the first lesson. Than in the
second and third lesson we wrote down our personal visions and drew plans how
we are going to achieve them. Now take again these materials and read them.
After you remind yourself of Who you are and what you want to be like, do you
feel that wonderful feeling and enthusiasm that you are already that great
person or soon will be? Now in this lesson we are going to add to this great
feeling one more cherry on the top of this super cake. And this cherry is the
knowing and good recognition of the 2 most important emotions - love and fear.
Explanation
In the world there are only two basic emotions and those are love and fear.
We always have a choice between these two emotions. It works the same as with
the positive thinking. We already know that we have the opportunity to decide
whether we are right or we let the truth to our surroundings or someone else.
Yet with love and fear it is much, much more important. I don’t know how to
emphasize it more. First I’ll explain you the difference between our
subconscious and consciousness.
Subconscious and consciousness
Let me put it like this. In life you can have anything. Indeed, whatever
you want. And so it is. You always get what you want, because you pull it to
yourself.
We have already explained that only “wanting” is not the best way of
thinking. It's because when I want something, I actually express and I admit
that I do not have it yet. And so I get a feeling of wanting. Far more
effective it is when I realize that I can have everything, and so I feel that I
have it all already and I'm grateful that everything went well and I got to my
destination. But even here we come to one thing. And that is the difference
between our consciousness and our subconscious. In our consciousness we could
wish for a thing, yet subconsciously we don’t want this thing at all. And then
we're trapped and we get into a misfortune. Why? Now you can feel like that
nothing of those things you’ve learnt here, none of this actually works. And
yet the opposite is true. You just need to understand the whole story. So here
we go! It often happens that we act contrary to our subconscious mind. And our
subconscious mind is simply programmed that it wants only our best, always and
under all circumstances. That's good to know. Our consciousness contrary
sometimes doesn’t act in our best interest, sometimes it becomes manipulated by
others, sometimes it tends to believe some dogmas, sometimes it is taken over
by other ideas and gimmicks, and so we wish and want something that is not
really the best way just for us. To solve this problem once and for all and
finally build a bridge between those two shores, we need to get to know what is
that “best solution for us”, in other words “what our subconscious mind really
wants”. Don’t worry, it's simple. Actually, we have already used this method a
few times before, you just didn’t know that you were pulling information right
from your subconscious. Far more effective than to only think about your own
subconscious mind is to sit down and write down everything (in hurry and
without thinking). Writing relaxes us and focuses our concentration and
thinking only in one direction.
Task
So give yourself a time limit, for example 3 minutes and give yourself a
task to answer this question: What do I want to achieve in the next two months?
And immediately start typing, madly. Don´t focus now on what you write, but
just write. Then return to what you've written, go back and start thinking
about it. In this way your answers will be a direct response from your
subconscious, those are your purest desires and thoughts that aren´t influenced
by the social dogmas or wishes of your family. This procedure can be used
whenever you want to know the answers to your questions or whenever you feel
the discrepancy between your actual situation and what you think you would like
to be or have. This way, you'll learn what you really want and then you can
think about whether you are going in the right direction.
Love and Fear
And now let´s get back to our two emotions - love and fear. We already know
the difference is between our subconscious and consciousness mind and also we
know how to find out what our subconscious mind really wants for us. Oh yeah.
But what if we have still some more wishes that we would like to include in the
plan, but in the same time we feel that our subconscious hasn´t adopted them
yet, that it isn´t associated with them? So how to do it, to convince our
subconscious and implement into it any nice idea that we want to realize? The
guide is love, habits and belief. We´ll talk about faith in the next lesson,
now I´ll mention only a few things. And then we are going to look at our
habits.